Wings for L.I.F.E.Life-skills Imparted to Families through Education TEEN DATING VIOLENCE AWARENESS MONTHHEALTHY RELATIONSHIPSPresented ByTillie Crawford, Program Coordinator & Kerry Hopes, C.N.P. 505 N. Pennsylvania AvenueSt. Andrew’s Parish HallSUNDAY, February 23^rd, 20146:00 PM to 7:30 PM Doors open at 5:45 PM. Meeting starts at 6:00 Calendars Available Plus Door Prize Drawing Dinner provided & crafts for children in a family friendly environment(Sitter available) For Questions call:  Shelly @ 317-2042 Wings for L.I.F.E. is a 501(c)3 Non-Profit Organization that provides education, life-skill training, and access to community resource

New Documentary on Opiate Addiction

The Hungry Heart is a new documentary from Bess O’Brien, director/producer of numerous award-winning documentary films. The movie primarily follows teens and young adults in a rural corner of Vermont who are addicted to prescription opiates and getting treatment from their pediatrician.

CASA/GAL programs that are seeing children or parents struggling with prescription drug addiction may be especially interested in this film. For more information see TheHungryHeartMovie.org or view the trailer.

Wings for Life - Diffusing Anger

Wings for L.I.F.E.

(Life-skills Imparted to Families through Education)

Diffusing Anger When Someone Pushes

Your Buttons!

Presented By

Dr. Van Warren, Doctor of Oriental Medicine

Door Prize Drawing

St. Andrew’s Church Parish Hall

505 N. Pennsylvania Avenue

SUNDAY, January 26^th, 2014

6:00 PM to 7:30 PM

Doors open at 5:45 PM. Meeting starts at 6:00

Dinner provided & crafts for children in a family friendly environment

(Sitter available)

For Questions call:  Shelly @ 317-2042

Wings For Life - Getting Off to the Right Start

Wings for L.I.F.E.

(Life-skills Imparted to Families through Education)

GETTING OFF TO THE “RIGHT” START…

FOR A SAFE AND HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Presented By

Diane Taylor, DWI Preventionist

          

                                                           2014 CALENDARS/PLANNERS

and FREE GIVEAWAY

ST. ANDREW’S CHURCH PARISH HALL

505 N. PENNSYLVANIA AVENUE

SUNDAY, January 12^th, 2014

6:00 PM to 7:30 PM

Doors open at 5:45 PM. Meeting starts at 6:00

Dinner provided & crafts for children in a family friendly environment

(Sitter available)

For Questions call:  Shelly @ 317-2042

Give the Gift of Peace

For Christmas, separated parents should give peace

Posted: Monday, December 2, 2013 9:00 pm

By Gary Direnfeld | Santa Fe New Mexican

Even though separated parents argue as to the best residential schedule, choice of school, faith, holiday time, Christmas and extra-curricular activities, these issues are simply not as predictive for the outcome of children of separated parents as conflict alone.

More to the point, the greater the parental conflict, the greater the risk for the child having a poor developmental trajectory. Children who are subject to ongoing parental hostilities are more apt to have school-related problems, social difficulties, early onset sexual behavior, a greater likelihood of drug/alcohol related problems, vocational difficulties and then issues in their adult intimate relationships. The parents of these children are at risk of having problematic relationship with their children, not only as youngsters but when their children are adults, too.

To the degree one or both parents can remain neutral in the face of provocation and conflict, the children are better served and the risk profile is improved. This might mean one parent acquiesces to the demands of the other, assuming not totally lopsided, dangerous or abusive. In so doing, this parent elevates the need of the child to be spared the parental conflict and thus subordinates their needs or wants to facilitate peace. While this parent may fee like they are losing something in the moment, this parent may actually gain the better lifelong relationship with their child in return.

That child, come adulthood, eventually develops a realistic appraisal of both parents and comes to appreciate the sacrifice of one in the face of the demands of the other. That adult child, no long bound by parental control can then re-right the balance and chose to prioritize the parent that more facilitated peace.

If you cannot settle the Christmas Day transition, imagine, letting go of Christmas Eve and Day each year in the name of peace for your child. Imagine developing your own ritual of celebrating Christmas on a day other than Dec. 25. Imagine being able to concentrate on the joy of your child opening gifts in the absence of animosity and anger. Imagine your gift to your child, peaceful co-existence with their other parent, and the return on that investment in your child’s ability to concentrate at school, form relationships and then be appreciative of your choices in their adult life.

Conflict will abate if at least one parent facilitates peace through flexibility and advancing this need of the child ahead of their desires. If a parent fights for what is fair, you may win the battle yet lose the war. The collateral damage includes the child directly as well as the potential for a meaningful lifelong relationship with your child come adulthood.

For Christmas, at least this year, give your child the gift of peace. After all, isn’t that what Christmas is all about?

Gary Direnfeld, MSW, RSW, is a social worker expert on matters of family life, media personality and parenting.

Spanking Kids Makes Them Lawbreakers

Spanking misbehaving kids is a topic debated by parents everywhere. And now, with the release of a new study, there appears to be solid, scientific evidence against the practice. Anthony explains what the researchers behind the study uncovered. Read more

Congratulations New CASA Volunteers!

Welcome Phyllis, Cameall, Kim, Lisa and Kai!

Here they are at Swearing In with Judge Currier and Volunteer Coordinator Amber Dollar.